In my own opinion I think people should choose who to marry. It is because I think everyone should have a right to choose who they want to marry. They can choose the one they love, spend the time to know each other and when you think you already know him well you can marry him. If you choose a bad guy to marry I think this is your own fault, you can't blame on the others because that is your own choice.. If my parents choose for me I won't have a chance to know about that person. And what between us is not love, it's just a responsibility to take care of each other. If your parents help you choose a bad guy to marry and who can you blame on? You can't blame your parents! It is because they always choose someone who they think it is suitable for you and the man will be rich and have the same age with you, that a list can make you become rich and you won't go through starving.But they can't help you to find a man who can make you happy. Sometimes will, if you're lucky enough! In the old times people always have to marry a man they don't even know, but time pass by even they don't have any feelings for each other at first, but when they get old they also realize that love has build between them. Although there are so special cases but I still don't want my parents to choose a husband for me.If you need me to live with a man who I don't love in the rest of my life, I rather die than choose marrying him.
Nowadays many movies or TV show tell us that marrying a man the you don't love usually being treat badly.Maybe they will be punch by their "husband" everyday and feel like living in hell every second. I myself don't want to suffer these kind of pain in the rest of my life. I want to spend time to go travel around the world with my husband when I grow old. I want to take his hand and be together with him to the end of my life. And this is the reason why I want to choose my own husband.
